You're right, he's not going to be open to talking about it - at least not easily but he has woken up to the fact that there do seem to be other people here who are concerned about his well being for no apparent reason other than he's having a rough time so I hope that along with the Cluedo event it'll now start to help him just-a-little more open.

There are issues, and they do need talking about. This is the hurdle I think I need to get over with him currently. It's all about -HOW- at this point orz.

Any ideas for where they could potentially run-in? Or maybe we can both keep an eye out for when the event stuff is announced?