I agree! I think they just come from very different places - Ashe is used to leading and Sephiroth is, well, a soldier (pun very intended). I think this disagreement over what/not to tell Biggs, Wedge and Jessie is super great and complicates their relationship in just the right way tbh. Ashe would still fight beside him in a heartbeat, she knows he can tear up a battlefield.

I think we just need them to find common ground on something.